Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Parenting: Imaginary friends

hohoho..... pernah x, u all, tgh wat keja or tgk tv. then tb2... anak u all, ckp sorg2. tp gaya drama dia, cam tgh ckp dgn member..... panik kan... kekekkeek....

lately nih, memi & dedi terperasan Aqil Khalish cam ckp sorg2. memula cam xbape kisah, tp ehh makin kerap plak. huhuhhuu..... then memi ckp, mebi dia ckp dgn 'kawan dia' kot..... kdg2 cam ngeri pun ada..

then kami pun search kat babycentre,

Imaginary friends 
Many children, especially those without siblings, create imaginary playmates. Most imaginary friends arrive between two-and-a-half and three years of age.
* yea betul tuh, Aqil Khalish berusia 3tahun. Aqil Khalish da ada adik, tp sbbkan Amni Khalisha still dlm bahasa german, so Aqil Khalish xseronok berborak lgk kot....

Don't be alarmed by pretend friends.
* hihihi... memula memi dpt tau, rs cam gembira & kelakar pun ada. sbb seronok tgk dia berinteraksi, wpun cam panik pun ada. sbb ada part dia marah 'kawan dia'. pastu 'kwn dia' ckp 'sowie' (pdhal dia gak yg ckp) hahahaha....

They are a part of your child's developing conscience and value system. They can provide solace and take responsibility for the things your child wishes she hadn't done.
* dr sni, kita dpt tgk Aqil Khalish pretend main susun2 block & nyanyi lagu bersm 'kawan dia'. 

Most imaginary friends disappear before a child is six.
* rsnya xlama kot 'kawan dia'. bila Amni Khalisha dah terer bebel, sure dorg berlawan cakap sesama sendr...

Firstborns often have imaginary friends, as do very bright kids. It's one way children learn to make distinctions between good and bad.
* hihi.... yela sbb dia Anak Sulung, ofkos mau geng sebaya, wpun terpaksa create. then mmg bgs, sbb dia ada pengingat kalu wat salah or tersilappp...

It's not uncommon for preschoolers to have an imaginary friend. These phantoms don't mean your child is lonely or maladjusted. In fact, children with imaginary friends are more likely to grow up to be creative, cooperative, sociable, independent and happy.
*So far Aqil Khalish mmg nmpk part kreatif dgn imaginasi dia, dan mmg seorg yg independent n ceria selalu.



yg kelakar, ms dlm keta odw ke One Utama:
Aqil Khalish: twin te...twin te....tite tarr.... (Lagu Twinkle2 Little Star)
Kawan dia: huhh....ehh salahhhhh....
Aqil Khalish: owhhh sowiii.... ote....nyanyi balik... twin...te..twin..te....


memi: hihiih.... sbnrnya sgt comey bila tgk Aqil Khalish & 'kawan dia'. perkara nih, sbnrnya Good Development, as long as dia happy. kalu nmpk dia cam stress dgn suasana 'kawan dia' then baru kita kena panik betul2. huhuhuuu....

4 comments:

♥ Wina ♥ said...

Ila, tq so much for this post!

lately nie, my hubby and I risau sgt tengok Kira bercakap dgn 'kawan' dia...baru ku tau mmg normal ek? ~dasar malas nk google~ hikhikhikk

comei je kan tgk dorang main, gelak, marah dgn 'kawan' tu tapi betul...ngeri pun ade sumtimes hahahh!

Cik Rose Cute said...

hihihi biasa la tue...anak kita pun suka imaginasi sorang2...memang kadang2 rasa ngeri..

MyKhalish said...

wina
no prob... hihihi... tula kelakarkan tgk dorg dgn 'kwn' tuh. tp mmg ngeri gak, tgh kita leka then tgk dia ckp sesorg. hihii

cik rose
hihihi... imaginasi wat kan mereka lbh bijak kan....

r.i.t.a said...

kirenye, die yg sebut outloud dialog die dgn "kwn die" tuh ke?
Aniq xde plak cmtuh...tp sket-sket "antu-antu" rase cm nk lesing jek...hahaha

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